Instead of a Gift Card
Easy and thoughtful gifts that can be sent online.
We give gifts to show our appreciation, love, or acknowledgment of one another. When selecting a present, we balance our own restrictions on time and resources with what we think the recipient would enjoy the most. With the plethora of options available to us, it can be hard to know where to begin. All the while, we are constantly tempted by the reliable, one size fits all present, a gift card. As you embark on spreading joy this pandemic holiday season, read below on some easy options instead of gift cards.
An experience
An activity for the recipient, or something for you both to do together. Examples include a spa certificate, concert tickets, an espresso course. It can be a walk together, or a homemade dinner. This gift shows that you value quality time with them, and want to do something together. It is an especially great present for people you have not been able to see due to the pandemic. Additionally, when you purchase a service for a future date, you can support a small business.
An essential
A useful item that the receiver would likely purchase on their own regardless of whether it was gifted to them (i.e. water bottle, duvet set, Costco membership, etc.). This is a practical and helpful gift that can make the recipient feel like they have one less errand to run or like you have read their mind. Perhaps they will be reminded of you whenever they use this item. You can always ask the recipient for necessities they have on their list.
A subscription
I love gifting subscriptions for two reasons. First, it’s a recurring reminder of my love and appreciation. Second, I can’t really be held accountable for what the gift is since I do not choose the exact content of each box. It’s thoughtful, but also an easy out from selecting a specific present. Some highly rated ones include: Fab Fit Fun, Bean Box, Atlas Coffee Club, and Allure Beauty Box.
Something returnable
If you’re thinking, why not skip this step and just buy a gift card? I think it is a kind gesture to pick out an item for someone, saying, ‘this reminded me of you’ or ‘I think you would look good in this’.
Personally, I don’t feel offended if they choose to exchange the gift because I had a nice time picking something out for them, and ultimately all that matters is the recipient likes the item.
If you’re planning on giving clothing, some stores have the option to virtually gift the item before it ships. This allows the recipient to modify the size, color, and style, before they receive the item.
Something sentimental
Sentimental items (i.e. homemade collage of old pictures, this reel viewer) are an easy way to show someone you value your relationship by reminding someone of great times you have shared. It’s a wonderful keepsake to look back at in the future.
On regifting
Regifting promotes sustainability! If you have something that you are not using or do not need, it is perfectly okay to gift that to someone else. There is nothing wrong with looking at a present someone gave you, and deciding that it is not a necessity for you right now. Better yet, receiving something that makes you smile, and think ‘wouldn’t so and so just love this?’ is a kind thought. Regifting is not rude, and it does not mean the gift you are sharing is not as nice or well thought out as something you would buy yourself.
If you must give a gift card
If you do end up giving a gift card, make it specific! Instead of a Amazon or Starbucks, pick a local place. This is a great opportunity to share one of your favorite hidden spots and support small businesses.
For the tea lover in your life, I recommend purchasing a gift card (or tea sampler!) from Scented Leaf. They have a variety of fresh teas, and have great discounts.
The note
Don’t forget the note, it’s a small gesture that can make all the difference. I try to save all cards or notes I receive to look back at. Here are some starters to make it personal.
A close friend
- Remember when…
- Thank you for…
- Draw a picture of when you hang out post pandemic
A kind presence in your life, someone you know adequately well
- You inspire me to…
- Thanks for helping me when …
- We should … post pandemic
A professional relationship
- Thank you for supporting me by…
- I appreciate your…
- Let’s grab lunch at … post pandemic
I hope this helps inspire some ideas on items you can give to others this holiday season. Though gift cards are an easy path, putting a little extra thought can make your gift stand out. Good luck and happy holidays!
